Relationships: Love

Why do you want to do this?

Well, I've been out of a relationship for a year now, and I'd like to have someone special in my life again. All relationships are learning experiences, and what I've learned isn't so much that a partner completes you, but that she adds her power to yours and you both become stronger. It's the difference between "good" and "extraordinary". Being in love and being loved back in return is a great experience, and I'm excited about being able to have that again.

What three things will you need to make this happen?

Simply do what I normally would do. Most of the people who become special tend to be going the same way when we meet. Simple faith, genuine enjoyment in our own lives, and authentic delight in the process should suffice.

What is the biggest barrier to your achieving this?

Allowing people to tell me the odds. Caving into fears of lifelong loneliness. As always, it's all about my mindset. Keep hope alive. 'Nuff said.