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John Aydelotte
Relationships: Family

Why do you want to do this?

My brother and I used to have a rather strong bond. But over the past year we have drifted a bit. Some choices he makes are not things I am ok with. So I struggle at times conversing with him. I need to learnt to except that he is who he is. not judge him and merely be a friend like I used to be. I find myself getting angry though when I try. This is a big wall I keep running into with him and it saddens me.

What three things will you need to make this happen?

OPEN & HONEST communication

Time spent together without distraction.

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What is the biggest barrier to your achieving this?

bridging the gap

3/2/2011 1:39:06 PM

The OPEN and HONEST is a difficult approach, knowing he may not want to hear what you say but it is the best way to go. I admire you for facing the challenge and I hope you will share your success along the way. Sometimes a letter is a helpful communication tool if emotions are getting in the way or if he cannot sit to listen to you. Once it is written,  its out and you no longer own the sadness and anger alone. It might help open the relationship to better communication. It also helps to organize your thoughts ahead of spending time together.  Your goal is a great one and I wish you all the best as you proceed. 

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