Amazing!  Just putting this goal up here is already helping to achieve that outcome if it's to come about for Sandhya and yourself.  I think taking the opportunity to talk with her to let her know how you feel about the obstacles of the past is a great starting point. I think it's also very important to be respectful of her very real feelings for someone else at this time too.  Even if you just clear the slate with the woman you've admired since college and let her know of your feelings for her, you'll feel so much enlightened.  If you don't do this though, it may be a weight on your heart forever.   I hope you'll let us know how it goes here and wishing you the best of luck.     

Thank you for the motivation. Well, here in India love marriages are considered a taboo. And marrying just any girl of your choice is tough because of the cast matching system. She happens to belong to a different cast so that adds to the problem.

Anyways, I will let you know as soon as I achieve the goal. Hopefully, I will :P

   Yeah . she is so sweet, keep trying dude .. btw did u propose her :)