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get out of a bad relationship
Relationships: Family

Why do you want to do this?

To find myself again and move on completly

What three things will you need to make this happen?

avoid as much contact

Not be available

Keep our conversations about juliette

What is the biggest barrier to your achieving this?

Still loving him and having a one year old daughter

8/5/2011 10:36:53 AM

Good luck with this goal.  So hard.  You have to learn to love yourself and your daughter more than you love anyone else.  A partner should compliment your life, not be a necessary part of it.

8/9/2011 10:34:07 AM

Wishing you the very best as you move through this process.  As time passes it will become easier.  What are the things that you are doing to keep your mind occupied?  Do you have any new hobbies that you'd like to develop?  I'd imagine your little one keeps you busy too.             

12/29/2011 2:55:25 PM

This is such a difficult goal, but it is one of the bravest things a woman can do for herself and her children.  Be strong and nurture yourself.

1/1/2012 10:24:17 PM

you've already started your steps, you've realized that it's not good for you and juliette. keep that in mind. and if you need, wright a list about why your doing this, every little thing thats ever gone wrong or that you hated. read it everytime you have a slightest thought of turning around.
anyone can be a sperm donor but it takes a special person to be a dad, but even if he is a good father, if you two are not good for eachother then its not healthy for juliette to see everyday.
msg me if you need to vent or just want an opinion :)

1/4/2012 7:36:59 PM

Hey Marilinda, Hopefully you had peaceful holidays! How are things going? I imagine Juliette was precious at her age for Christmas. What you are doing takes courage and patience. Eventually, the emotions around the separation begin to find other avenues of involvement. Be especially gentle on yourself. Do take the time and space you need to heal. Take strength in knowing you made your best decision for now. A new year for new beginnings...

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