This is such an awesome goal.  I really believe that just the fact that you've put some thought into the partner you'd like to have in your life and taken the step to post this goal increases your chances of attracting that perfect partner to you.  I know how you are feeling because I felt the same way.  A new trailblazing attitude toward dating helped me find the perfect partner for me and I believe the method may work for you too.  Your health challenges are absolutely significant but should absolutely not stand in your way of pursuing your dreams and your hearts' desire. I wish you the very best in health and attitude and look forward to your updates too.  Can you tell us more about the qualities of your ideal partner?

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Rainess, I love this goal, how you've laid it all out there! I know it's possible, I got just what you're asking for. Funniest thing was, I met him at the after-party of a funeral for a very dear family member. It was like being struck by lightning, talking to him, and I left the conversation a bit stunned, because when you meet someone inspiring, it's very unexpected and wonderful. We continued those conversations and two years later, boom. Engaged. I fully believe that my great aunt had a hand from wherever she was in making sure I met this person who exists to make the world, and my world, better. Wishing you the best in your exploration.

 Awesome!