Relationships: Love

Why do you want to do this?

There are some things about our relationship that are not strong. I mean I understand no relationship is perfect nor is one person perfect but what I do know is that we can perfect aspects about our relationship that is lacking. I really want that with us because I know WE can make it!!!

What three things will you need to make this happen?

Understand our situation. Without being specific we do not have an ideal relationship and there are extenuating circumstances that prevent that. Although I know that things will not be like that forever, I have to understand that this is what is going on RIGHT NOW. Because I love him, I have to accept that.

Accept our differences. I'm having a hard time grasping how COMPLETELY different we are. Those are also the things that I love most about US. With the good comes the bad, and I have to learn to live with it.

Continue to uplift one another and not bring the other down. We we're both down, it's pretty depressing. But if we continue to lift each other up when the other is down or regardless of our mental state, we have to remember that we should be able to balance each other out.

What is the biggest barrier to your achieving this?

Our distance is a pretty big issues and not being able to see each other when we want but I think it's worth it.