Relationships: Friends
Why do you want to do this?
Sometimes it seems like I have a ton of acquaintances, but no real friends. My wife has some girlfriends that she goes out with on occasion, but I don't have anyone in my life who fills that role. It would be especially nice if we could find another couple who are in the same stage of life as us where both me and my wife would enjoy our time with these people.
What three things will you need to make this happen?
Talk to my wife about this goal to see how she feels about it and see if there is anyone we can think of that we know already that might fit this role.
As dumb as it may sound, I think I might have to re-learn how to make friends. The true friends I've had in my life were friendships that were started when I was just a boy (when it comes naturally to people). I'm sure there are websites and books on this subject. Man, I'm a nerd!
Be bold. Engage people I don't know very well. Be cognizant of the people around me and have a genuine interest in their lives.
What is the biggest barrier to your achieving this?
I think it could be a little bit sticky because if I try to accomplish this too quickly, it will seem unnatural and awkward. But if I don't take frequent noticeable steps, it may never happen.
Also, I think it might be somewhat difficult to find another couple that both me and my wife really gel with because we have somewhat different personalities and tastes.
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